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生气不如争气,抱怨不如改变

热度 261662已有 34316 次阅读2016-7-14 16:32 |个人分类:博客

        生活中,一个好的心态,可以使你乐观豁达;一个好的心态,可以使你战胜面临的苦难;一个好的心态,可以使你淡泊名利,过上真正快乐的生活。人类几千年的文明史告诉我们,积极的心态能帮助我们获取健康、幸福和财富。

1、心态决定人生

        一位哲人说过:“你的心态就是你的主人。”现实生活中,我们不能控制自己的遭遇,却可以控制自己的心态;我们不能改变别人,却可以改变自己。其实,人与人之间并无太大的区别,真正的区别在于心态。所以,一个人成功与否,主要取决于他的心态

2、生气不如争气

        人生有顺境也有逆境,不可能处处是逆境;人生有巅峰也有谷底,不可能处处是谷底。因为顺境或巅峰而趾高气扬,因为逆境或低谷而垂头丧气,都是浅薄的人生。面对挫折,如果只是一味地抱怨、生气,那么你注定永远是个弱者

3、有自信才能赢

        古往今来,许多人之所以失败,究其原因,不是因为无能,而是因为不自信。自信是一种力量,更是一种动力。当你不自信的时候,你难于做好事情;当你什么也不做不好时,你就更加不自信。这是一种恶性循环。若想从这种恶性循环中解脱出来,就得与失败作斗争,就得树立牢固的自信心。

4、心动更要行动

        心动不如行动,虽然行动不一定会成功,但不行动则一定不会成功。生活不会因为你想做什么而给你报酬,也不会因为你知道什么而给你报酬,而是因为你做了些什么才给你报酬。一个人的目标是从梦想开始的,一个人的幸福是从心态上把握的,而一个人的成功则是在行动中实现的。因为只有行动,才是否滋润你成功的食物和泉水。

5、平常心不可少

        人生不可能一帆风顺,有成功,也有失败;有开心,也有失落。如果我们把生活中的这些起起落落看得太重,那么生活对于我们来说永远都不会坦然,永远都没有欢笑。人生应该有所追求,但暂时得不到并不会阻碍日常生活的幸福,因此,拥有一颗平常心,是人生必不可少的润滑液剂。

6、宽容是一种美德

        俗话说得好:“退一步海阔天空,让几分心平气和。”这就是说人与人之间需要宽容。宽容是一种美德,它能使一个人得到尊重。宽容是一种良药,它能挽救一个人的灵魂。宽容就像一盏明灯,能在黑暗中放射着万丈光芒,照亮每一个心灵。

7、学会给心灵解绑

        人的心灵是脆弱的,需要经常地激励与抚慰。常常自我激励,自我表扬,会使心灵快乐无比。学会给心灵松绑,就是要给自己营造一个温馨的港湾,常常走进去为自己忙碌疲惫的心灵做做按摩,使心灵的各个零件经常得到维护和保养。

8、别把挫折当成失败

        每个人的一生,难免都会遭受挫折和失败。所不同的是失败者总是把挫折当失败,从而使每次都能够深深打击他取胜的勇气;成功者则是从不言败,在一次又一次的挫折面前,总是对自己说:“我不是失败了,而是还没有成功。”

一个暂时失利的人,如果继续努力,打算赢回来,那么他今天的失利,就不是真正的失败。相反的,如果他失去了再战斗的勇气,那就是真输了。 

9、别把烦恼当成心病

        在现实生活中,终日烦恼的人,实际上并不是遭遇了太多的不幸,而是根源于烦恼者的内心世界。因此,当烦恼降临的时候,我们既不要怨天尤人,也不要自暴自弃,要学会给心灵松绑,从心理上调适自己,避免烦恼变成心病。

10、快乐其实很简单

        有人说,快乐是春天的鲜花,夏天的绿荫,秋天的野果,冬天的漫天飞雪。其实,快乐就在我们身边。一个会心的微笑,一次真诚的握手,一次倾心的交谈,就是一种快乐无比的事情。


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